Supporting Men & Boys Before It's Too Late
When life becomes overwhelming, we provide calm, consistent support — helping men regain stability, rebuild relationships, and find a way forward.
Too Many Men Are Struggling In Silence
Every week in the UK, 84 men take their own lives.
But long before that point, many are:
- Isolated
- Overwhelmed
- Struggling after relationship breakdown
- Losing connection with their children
They don’t always ask for help.
And often, they don’t know where to turn.
We step in before crisis becomes tragedy.
How We Support Men & Boys
One-to-One Counselling
A safe, private space to talk openly and be heard
Support Through Separation
Helping fathers navigate family breakdown and loss of contact
Emotional Stability & Coping
Tools to manage anxiety, anger, and overwhelming thoughts
Guidance Through Complex Situations
Support in making sense of legal, emotional, and life challenges
Practical Life Support
Help with housing, paperwork, and regaining stability
Ongoing, Consistent Support
Someone in your corner — especially when things feel hardest
From Isolation to Stability
Behind every statistic is a real person trying to cope with overwhelming change.
A Father Came To Us...
A father came to us after losing regular contact with his children.
- Isolated
- Overwhelmed
- Struggling with anxiety and depression
- Unable to cope with day-to-day life
At his lowest point, he felt completely alone.
How We Helped
- Weekly one-to-one counselling
- Practical support with housing and life challenges
- Tools to manage emotions and regain control
- Ongoing support during difficult periods
The Result
From feeling completely alone…
to feeling supported, understood, and hopeful again.
More Than Just Support
Emotional Support
Safe, consistent counselling to process difficult emotions
Practical Stability
Help with housing, paperwork, and everyday challenges
Understanding Behaviour
Building awareness to break negative patterns
Early Intervention
Stepping in before situations escalate
Your Support Helps Us:
- Provide one-to-one counselling for men in crisis
- Support fathers rebuilding relationships with their children
- Reduce isolation and emotional distress
- Intervene before situations escalate
What Your Support Provides
- £50 → A one-to-one counselling session
- £200 → Crisis support for someone in need
- £500 → Ongoing support for a father rebuilding his life
Working Alongside Trusted Partners
Falsely Accused Network
Falsely Accused Network supports individuals across England and Wales who are facing false allegations of domestic abuse and related legal proceedings.
We provide practical, structured support by helping people access the right legal professionals, including criminal defence solicitors, family law solicitors and barristers, as well as experienced McKenzie Friends for family court matters. Our focus is on helping individuals navigate ongoing or imminent proceedings with the right guidance and support in place.
We also recognise the emotional impact these situations can have. Alongside legal support, we signpost individuals to trusted mental health services, including the charity Walk the Walk CIC, who provide specialist support for those facing challenging circumstances. We also offer access to a private peer support group, giving individuals a safe, understanding space to connect with others going through similar experiences.
Our service is designed for those currently dealing with active cases or expecting proceedings, and we aim to ensure that no one has to face complex legal challenges alone.
Contact Details
Website: www.falselyaccusednetwork.co.uk
Email: support@falselyaccusednetwork.co.uk
Telephone: 0204 538 8788
Andrew Pain
“I’m a CPD accredited and TEDx speaker, podcaster and author (Honestly, Man: why masculinity feels confusing, shame doesn’t help and what to do about it) (book is published on Aug 6th).
I lead in my speaking work on men’s mental health and burnout and I’m on a mission to create psychologically safe communities, where people truly feel empowered to ask for help, voice concerns and dare to dream.”
– Andrew
Serving diverse organisations, from Specsavers to National Highways, The Crown Estate to University of Liverpool, HSBC to Amazon, Andrew is a dynamic and entertaining speaker, who does not shy away from talking about sensitive topics, addressing them head-on, but with grace and humility.
Contact Details
Website:
www.andrewpain.co.uk
Podcasts:
www.andrewpain.co.uk/podcast
